Better than you syndrome

It's thanksgiving and I have a lot to be thankful for, my kids, my girl, my family and the forward progress of my life.  There is one thing i'd like to discuss tho, some people even on one day out of the year, that is supposed to be about thanks and positive feelings and thoughts, that still some people just can't get over themselves enough to leave well enough alone.  I get to hear it every day just so they can hear themselves talk.  What gives anyone the right that has no job and has't shown any will to get one, after graduating, the right to tell someone who works full time and earns everything they have, how to spend their money and what they should and shouldn't have.  Also would like to know how you can be better than another person when they are the only one who can't have a conversation without bringing out negative false pieces of info and making up things negative about the appearance, life standing, intelligence, and position in life of to someone else, even when all the person intended the convo for was as simple as when will our children be dropped off after dinner? The one person uses please, thank you , be safe, and have a good day even through the constant derogatory remarks and nothing good that comes from the others mouth. I don't understand how someone can hate their path in life that they chose and are not willing to change, has to push their misery on every one around.  bridges do burn people keep it in mind.

judgemnt

i bet we at least know one person that no matter what you tell them they still make themselves out to be better than you and everyone around them. Most of those people that treat others that way, typically have a lot of fears and in all honestly when compared look horrible compared to who they were speaking too. My soon to be ex we'll call her "jess" is prime example.  Since we have not been together, she seems to feel that she still needsto know and be involved in my money situation and decision making in life.  She has a degree and hasn't gotten up off her butt to geta job. She tries to tell me how to spend my money and last time i checked it's not hers. I just lost my job recently and when i informed her she said oh no i won't get child support, like that's all she was concerned with was the money that enabled her to sit on her ass and just spend.  No one on  this planet is better than the next.